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What makes me hate the Internet

I love the Internet. I especially like the services that let me connect, share and compare my ideas, my ideals and my interests with others.

But there’s a dirty underbelly to that wonderful creation, and that’s the fact that there are thousands if not millions of people out there who are just not mature enough to handle the Internet. Case in point:

A guy posts a fake ad on Craigslist. He pretends to be a woman who’s looking for rough sex. The answers come in, many of them by married men looking for a fling, and what does he do? He posts the hundreds of replies complete with real names, pictures, phone numbers and sometimes work email on a wiki (read about it here).

Now, the problem here is twofold. On the one hand, single-handedly a guy is destroying not just people’s lives, but also every trust anyone could have in the Internet. Especially today, when services like 43Places, Twitter or generally Blogs are enabling people to open up to the world and discover what else is out there, pulling a prank like that, is one big disaster, causing people to retreat back into their shells and adhering to the “rather safe than sorry” mentality. And well, they have a point.

I remember posting about a girl who got entangled in a plagiarism affair, and even though I didn’t make it clear enough then, exposing her to the Internet was a cruel and wrong thing to do. This recent prank? About a million times worse.

The second part of the problem is the fact that a majority of the people responding to above linked Wired blog article, were in favour of the guy who did this. Here’s an example:

Wow. You seriously think it’s okay for married men to troll the internet for ass without any consequences, and that anyone who catches them, outs them and calls them on it are actually the assholes in such a scenario.
I seriously can’t believe you guys. You have no reasonable sense of morality whatsoever. And WE’RE the social conservatives?!
That you two have a forum like Wired to express your backwards, amoral point of view is supremely horrifying.

The fact that the commenter decided to post anonymously displays exactly what makes me hate the Internet: The fact that there’s always a mob of self-righteous cowards just around the corner, waiting to impose their backwards, pseudo-moral views on whoever they think deserves it.

On running and failing and biking

As you are a vivid reader of my blog you are well aware of my forays into the world of sports, precisely into the world of running. While it may seem cumbersome and boring to some, running actually quite appealed to me from the start.

For someone who’s not exactly overly competitive, a sport requiring neither a team nor an opponent seemed perfect. Although early dips into the sport were accompanied by near-death experiences, I kept to it. Hell, I even created a damned sports category on here.

At this point, people usually describe how they’ve overcome their initial reluctance to exercise regularly. Well, I won’t step out of line here either. I did overcome my reluctance. But I didn’t overcome the fact that apparently my hip joints think differently. I don’t know why it is that way, and if it’s maybe due to me not exercising for the better part of 25 years, which has left me with hip joints ready to be replaced by shiny new titanium ones, but I simply can’t go on running. After my last two tries, I couldn’t walk or get up straight for a week. Which is not desirable when you do in fact have to get up everyday (and sometimes walk).

So, no more running for me. I did some research and asked people who know about things, and have thus decided to pick up riding my bike, as it is, apart from swimming, the sport that’s easiest on joints. Vienna does sport some great places to go biking, so almost everything’s sorted out already. What is not sorted out is the lack of my bike. Unfortunately, bikes do come in quite expensive shapes, and expensive is something I at the moment cannot afford.

So, in order to find a cheap bike, I checked out craigslist.org, but unfortunately, the Vienna branch isn’t really well developed. To be precise, it’s really quite pathetic. So, in a joint effort to both pick up some speed on the Vienna craigslist branch and my plans on getting in shape again, I’ve posted a classified in the bicycles section. Go there and answer my ad if you’ve got a bike (you want to get rid of, of course…no need in telling me that you’ve got a bike if you then don’t want to give it away). Please also keep in mind that although I’d like a cheap bike, it should still sport the most vital parts, so I can actually ride it.




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